Monday, October 18, 2010

30 Posts in 30 Days - Day Eighteen

Master List
Day 1 - your favorite song
Day 2 - your favorite movie
Day 3 - your favorite television program
Day 4 - your favorite book
Day 5 - your favorite quote
Day 6 - 20 of your favorite things
Day 7 - a photo that makes you happy
Day 8 - a photo that makes you angry/sad
Day 9 - a photo you took
Day 10 - a photo taken over 10 years ago of you
Day 11 - a photo of you recently
Day 12 - something you are OCD about
Day 13 - a fictional book
Day 14 - a non-fictional book
Day 15 - your dream house
Day 16 - a song that makes you cry (or nearly)
Day 17 - an art piece (drawing, sculpture, painting, etc)
Day 18 - my wedding/future wedding/past wedding
Day 19 - a talent of yours
Day 20 - a hobby of yours
Day 21 - a recipe
Day 22 - a website
Day 23 - a youtube video
Day 24 - where you live
Day 25 - your day, in great detail
Day 26 - your week, in great detail
Day 27 - your worst habit
Day 28 - what's in your handbag/purse
Day 29 - hopes, dreams, and plans for the next 365 days
Day 30 - a dream for the future

Ugh, this has to be the post I was most not looking forward to.  I had a wedding, a fairly big wedding.  I didn't want a wedding.  But I was guilt tripped into having one.  I wanted to just gone on vacation and get married on a beach somewhere, come back and have a big party.  But no, I got the guilt trip of "If we don't have a wedding, my mother will never get a wedding."  Excuse me?  The wedding isn't for your mother, my mother or anyone else.  I knew it was a mistake, I didn't want to do it, but I did.  It was 50% disaster and 50% the big party I wanted.  If I could go back, knowing what I do now, there would be no wedding.  That money was best used for bills and living, not a wedding that no one remembers - and why would they, I was the last in the long line of family and friends to get married.

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